Willingness

Fledgling robin preparing to take flight

          The one attribute recovery requires of everyone is willingness. Positive change must be embraced with as much open-mindedness as possible, followed by the determination to shoulder whatever responsibility such change might demand. We have shown this quality in the progress we’ve made so far. Complete self-sufficiency has been nudged aside, as we made room to accept the wisdom of others. We’ve taken an honest look at our lives and taken aim toward a more spiritual way of living. The next suggestion will require even more from us: the willingness to make amends to those we have harmed in any way. This practice involves making a list of those we’ve hurt, the wrongs done, and how we will try and rectify them. However, as we make our plans, we need to make sure what we say or disclose won’t cause any further damage (including to ourselves). It’s helpful to talk over our list with a mentor, as we are apt to leave off someone we still fear or resent. Here we can cultivate an open mind and heart, realizing what we’re about to do will not only give us a sense of freedom but will lay the foundation for healthy relationships in the future.

We cannot become what we want by remaining what we are. 

~ Max DePree

For more information on willingness, see this post.