Tortoise photo from a video by National Geographic
It can be a little unnerving to let go of attitudes and behaviors that have become second nature to us. Like the tortoise, we may feel vulnerable and unprotected. Though our intentions may point us in the right direction, how do we actually change those daily thoughts and emotions that hinder us? How do we prevent them from triggering our old habits? Repetition is what created these patterns, and so we must practice new behaviors to reset what is familiar to us. While emotions aren't shortcomings, our emotionally-tinged thoughts can affect our perspective; such thoughts make our ideas feel solid and real even when they're not. Yet a surge of emotion can act as a signal to pay attention to the sensation that arises rather than the fictional story our mind wants to create. In that open space, we can mindfully choose a skillful response that will benefit our recovery. We won't ever be perfect, but the more we practice, the closer we'll move toward what matters.
For more information on hindrances, see this post.
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